No one has ever accused me of being a rocket scientist, but as I enter 2020 and review my priorities in decades past, I believe that time has brought me wisdom with respect to resolutions. Like most of us, I’ve taken some time to consider my vision of what 2020 should yield: the things that I want to do and those I do not, what new skills I’d like to learn, how I will stay healthy and in shape, etc. But unlike previous years, the recurring theme that is playing through my head is that whether 2020 will be a successful year is not so much about my measurable accomplishments—it is about the person I choose to be. I must define the person that Mike Kelly should be—the person I want to be—and make strides toward becoming that man. In 2020, success will flow from my relationship with my friends and family and the assistance and kindness that I offer my fellow man.

For perhaps the first time, I feel like I am entering the new year with a clear—or shall I say, 20/20—vision of what true accomplishment looks like! In large part, I thank my long-time friend and fellow attorney, Steve Hamm, for this realization. He and I have been through it all—the delight of watching our children grow into successful adults, the ups and downs of our respective careers, and the personal joys and sorrows that sculpt each of us. On Monday, Steve called to invite me to dinner, having made it his New Year’s resolution to spend more time with friends. His gesture was touching and reminded me to think about what’s truly important, as opposed to how many boxes I check or accolades I receive. Steve Hamm—you’ve inspired me, my friend, and I cannot thank you enough!

With 2020 now in full swing, I hope that each of you is off to a great start and looking forward to what lies ahead this year and in the coming decade. Whatever your resolution may be, stay true to it—you are worth the effort it will take to make your 2020 vision your reality! Happy New Year!